1. How will you celebrate Easter this year?
We will make something here at home for ourselves. It won't be anything special like a prime rib which we use to do for Easter because we are not going to Costco.
What we have been doing for the last couple of years is meeting at a German restaurant near Adam and Gabby's house with her family. Awesome pancakes! Then we would go to their house for an Easter egg hunt.
That will not be happening this year. We will probably, in the next few days, drop off James' Easter basket and of course have no contact with them at all.
2. Is it easier for you to receive grace offered or extend grace to another? Explain.
I've never been good at receiving grace offered. I have always been better at extending grace but haven't done to much of it the last few years.
So I have a friend who has offered to come over and help me clean out cabinets, etc. I always say "no but thank you very much." I just don't want her to see the stuff I've ignored over the years.
On the other hand I have taken people out to dinner, I have given a friend money at Christmas when she couldn't afford to buy her children gifts and have done many generous things over the years.
3. Do you say grace before meals? If so do you have a standard dinnertime grace or is it more 'off the cuff' ? Do you say grace when dining out? Do you have a favorite grace? Any special memory associated with 'saying grace'?
No I do not. We never got into the habit and Mark wouldn't go for it. However I do talk to God everyday.
4. What are some challenges you think the next generation will face? (Generation Alpha-born between 2011 and 2025)
Joyce that is an excellent question which I'm not sure I have an answer for.
5. Share a favorite quote or lyric featuring the word faith.
6. Insert your own random thought here.
I don't have a random thought right now but with the passing of my father I haven't felt much like reading blog posts. My list on Feedly is getting very long. However I do hope to get caught up with you when I can.
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I can understand not feeling like reading blog posts. Losing a loved one is hard enough but with the current situation it makes it even harder with not being able to gather family and friends. Just be kind to yourself and take care. If when you feel like reading again it looks too overwhelming do what I've done in the past. Hit mark all as read and start fresh. Everyone will understand and those who don't aren't worth your time.
Debby, it has to be hard dropping off the Easter basket with absolutely no contact. My heart goes out to you sweet sister. I have lost both parents and can understand some of what you must be going through. Its been 5 years since I lost my mom and I still miss her dearly. <3
BTW, that pancake looks great<3
growing up we were forced to say grace at every meal, at home or outside the home. when I got married I stopped doing it. I agree with Ann, just click that mark read and go forward. when I take a day off I just skip all the posts on that day... it would be overwhelming to read so much. sometimes I go back and read a few and don't comment. I am better at giving than receiving, even complements. I have had people offer to help but I don't want help, never have. now if I needed it I would have no problem accepting it. I am a person who rather do it myself, just my personality... I would never let anyone go in my cabinets or drawers. shudder shudder
I am an organized person, but I don't want anyone going through my cabinets...oh man! talk about unorganized!
Prayers for you...death...I lost my hub 17 months ago (colon cancer) and 3 months ago my daughter passed away unexpectedly. Prayers and hugs to you.
Its ok to not do regular routines ... you're grieving & that takes time. Still sending you some hugs
It is difficult to focus on anything when we are grieving, but I also know you are at peace knowing that you loved your dad really good. I heard that phrase the other day, and thought about it when I read of your dad's death. You did love him good and that has to bring comfort to you. Do have a blessed Easter my friend.
Believe me!!! I totally get that about not reading blogs. I'm so sorry about the loss of your Dad, and your sadness over not getting to be with your family this weekend. It is hard for me, too. May you be blessed! I appreciate your honesty to that question about generational challenges. That was a difficult one for me, and I wasn't satisfied with my answer.
Sending prayers Debby!
I shared the same quote.
xx oo
Carla
I've been thinking about you so much, Debby, since learning of the passing of your father. Such hard times we live in, for more reasons than one.
Your comment about not being able to receive grace.... it triggers something I used to tell my Lamaze couples all the time. During the 6th class we talked about "what to do now that baby's born". I always told them that they're going to have people come over and offer to vacuum for them or dust for them and their first instinct is going to be... "Oh no, that's ok!". Then the visitors will leave & you'll be faced with not only a fussy baby but a carpet that needs vacuuming or furniture that needs dusting. So, as hard as it may be, allow people to help you. Allow people to be blessed by their giving... instead of their receiving. For in giving we are blessed too.
So I say the same to you, my friend. Allow others to gain graces by helping you... and your cupboards will be clean, which is a blessing to both the giver as well as the receiver.
Love, Andrea xoxo
I totally understand, Debby! Wishing you and Mark a blessed Easter Sunday.
My deepest condolences on the loss of your father. While I do still have both my parents, I lost my mother-in-law (who I adored) almost 2 years ago. I am STILL grieving that loss. So, be gentle with yourself in the days and weeks ahead.
Blessings,
Patti
Have a blessed Easter Debby!
Oh, Debby, I am so sorry to hear about your dad's passing. I know you are heart broken. Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
((hugs)) Kathy
Debby take a break from reading blogs. Don't try to think you have to keep up with them. Grieving is hard work and it is very tiring. Take care of yourself. That is what matters these days! We gave a gift card to son to use for Easter dinner and to get grand kids something for Easter from us. I do remember reading about those fabulous potato pancakes from previous Easters. How is Amber doing dealing with her grandpa's passing?
Betty
Easter is going to be different this year for sure.
I know you will miss your family.
I was reminded in a sermon today -that this week was hard for Jesus and He ended up crucified for us.
All we have to do is stay in for a couple of weeks.
Kind of put things in perspective for me.
Love, sandie
This is a tough time on everyone, and I'm sure especially on one who would love to be with little James and hug him when he gets his Easter basket. I love the last poster about faith vs. fear. God bless you and have a wonderful Easter!
I'm sure it's hard to do routine things when you are grieving. May God continue to comfort you...
So sorry for the loss of your dad. They are always in our hearts and minds.
If she is a good friend, she might already have an inkling in what you have collected over the years. And if not: so what? Accept her help when that is again possible and start going through things. The result in the end will be that you will have fun sorting, making memories of old memories and it will be done quicker than if done on your own.
Big klem
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