Saturday, September 26, 2020

SHE WILL BE MISSED

MISS SKYE B

1-7-2009 to 9-24-2020

Cairn Terrier



My two favorite photos. Above and below.
We were told that she would most likely
change colors before she turned 4!




Sadly we lost Skye suddenly on Thursday afternoon. If you follow me on Facebook you already know this. I must say that I don't know what I would do without all the kind sympathy messages I have received there. It has helped me so much. 

We left for Montana on Tuesday. Skye does not like driving in the car. We normally have to give her an anxiety pill and she eventually settles in. The second day is usually better since she is kind of use to the routine. 

She struggled more this time because she has been having hip issues for at least 5 months now, maybe even longer. Being that the car seats are angled back a little bit she didn't have the ability to push herself up and move around to get comfortable. So she ended panting a lot more than usual. 

I can't say that killed her but I'm sure it may have played a roll in her passing. Normally when she gets to Amber and Dylan's house she settles in but was having a hard time doing that. They have their new puppy Finley who naturally wanted to play with Skye and jumped all over her. She seemed a little pissed off, however she ate, drank water, took treats and even went for her walk with Mark on Thursday morning. 

She just didn't seem to be relaxing on the sofa like she did the day before. She was panting a lot. I decided to take her outside and get her some fresh air. I carried her outside and put her within their fenced front yard. She started lifting her paws funny and stepping unevenly falling onto her side. I called everyone outside. 

Within 10 minutes she was gone. Mark, Amber and Dylan were next to her, talking to her, trying to get her to respond. I was outside the gate bawling my eyes out. I just couldn't bear what I was seeing. When I saw her move her bowels I knew that was the end. She had a few muscle spasms after that but she was already gone. We can only assume she had a heart attack. 

She was put on a blanket and the three of them took her to the vet. I said my goodbyes to her in the car. She was at peace. They made arrangements for her to be cremated and Amber/Dylan will bring her home at Christmas. We have two other precious dogs at home waiting to have their ashes spread with ours someday. 

I dread going back home next week and facing all of her belonging. I am thankful right now for the diversion being here with Amber, Dylan and Finley. I am also thankful that it was quick and that we didn't have to make the decision of having to put her down. 

Even in the hardest of times God is good. 

18 comments:

Ann said...

I was so sorry to read about this on Facebook. I know how heartbreaking it is for you.
Sweet pictures of her. Such a pretty dog. Take comfort in the joy that she brought to you all those years.

Sandi said...

My condolences, Debby.
❤️

The Feminine Energy said...

Awwwww Debby, I'm so so sorry for the loss of your Skye! What a sad story! Please know I'm keeping you close in thought & in prayer. Much love & sympathy, Andrea xoxo :-(

Gloria said...

You have my sympathy for the loss of Skye.
A pet becomes part of the family.
My husband and I had to have our dog put to sleep
by the vet years ago, she was suffering.

Martha said...

Debby, I am so sorry to hear this sad news. I know this has to be heartbreaking for you. My thoughts and deepest sympathy go out to you.

MadSnapper said...

You already know because I've already told you that my heart is aching with your heart and I fully understand how much this hurts. Hugs and love coming to you through the internet. Your two favorites are my favorites but I also really love the color she was before she changed she was beautiful and still was

betty said...

She was such a great dog! So cute and adorable! I cried as I read this blog post. And so true, God is always good. My favorite story of Skye was that you guys taught her how to ring the bell to go outside. Very clever you were in doing that! She will live on in your memories forever and she'll always be a part of you. Take the time to grieve her. I know you are still grieving your dad too. Geesh this has been such a difficult year for you in so many ways. Hugs to you. I know it will be hard to come home to the empty house after your trip. Be prepared, as you know, for a fresh round of tears when you do so.

betty

Mevely317 said...

Thank you for sharing this account, Debby. I hope it helps a little to talk about it. I'm glad you all were with Skye in her final moments; they she didn't pass alone. Like Betty said, this has been such a hurtful year. Do you think Adam or Gabby would go over to your place and remove Skye's things before you get home?

Sue said...

I am so sorry, Debby, We lost our precious Jack a few yrs. ago, and we still miss him so much, cannot look at my photos with our crying.
Thoughts and prayers.
Blessings,
Sue

Elizabeth "Libby" Day said...

Debby, somehow I missed this on Facebook. I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet companion. We have a granddog named Skye as well and she is the most adored animal I can imagine. We haven't had a pet since the late 1990's but I do remember how they get into your heart and you miss them greatly. Know I'm thinking about you in the days ahead as you return home.

Chatty Crone said...

I am so so so sorry. It breaks my heart and I know it has yours. Love and hugs.

CheerfulMonk said...

I'm so sorry. 😢

Debi said...

Oh, Debby, I am so sorry for your loss. It is so difficult losing pets. ((hugs))

Susan said...

Oh I am in tears reading this. I am so sorry! I have been through this twice and I know your pain. I will keep you in prayer. Good that you will have her ashes. I am glad you were with her. Big hugs!

photowannabe said...

Aww..Debby, I am so, so sorry...
Precious memories of Skye but
(((hugs))) for your hurting heart.
Sue

Pam said...

Oh I am so sorry. Our furs are just as close to us as a human in our life. I know my loss of Dakota in March was a really hard one. He was my best bud. Your baby has the most adorable face.

Carla from The River said...

Hello Debby,
I am sorry for your loss. Trust me I do know how it feels. We lost our Boston Terrier, Labor Day 2018. She passed 2 days before Sam left for Basic Training.
I am sending lots of HUGS and LOVE!
Carla

Rebecca Jo said...

Oh my heart... I am so sorry. You know I love Cairn terriers too & this just is so hard. Hugs to you all

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